eh - the picture sucked - so I pulled it - but needless to say the beard is gone.
Saturday, April 26, 2003
Friday, April 25, 2003
Thursday, April 24, 2003
Cute Parental Unit Moment #257:
(Discussing with my Pop why I was in Palm Springs for the weekend)
Me: "It's called the White Party - I've gone the last four years - I know I've told you about it?"
Dad: "Yeah - but why do they call it the White Party?"
Me: "Because you have to wear white"
Dad: "Have to...everyone?"
Me: "Well yeah - I mean they won't arrest you if you don't"
Dad: "Well what will they call it next year then?"
Me: "uh, Dad - they'll still call it the White Party"
Dad: "Their making you wear white again next year?"
...sometime this weekend - lost in a delightful fugue brought on by multiple players from the alphabet - dancing in a bank of dance floor fog to Phil B or Tracy Young or Manny Lehman - I felt this sensation: togetherness.
I realized that, the moment I like myself best and see myself for who I really am and the possibility to be - is when I'm with friends (new and old).
I don't want to date anyone right now. Not BN1 or BN2 or BN3 or any other BN_ that might come along. I'm not ready. I don't want to share my deepest thoughts. I don't want another guy to make up cute nicknames for me, I don't want to wake up next to anyone - not yet. I've started distancing myself from the bachelors. I don't want to be cruel, I don't want to hurt anyone - but this isn't about them - it's about me (I've spent enough of my life worrying about hurting others).
Today is two months. Two months since I officially closed the door with Lucky. I don't regret it. It hurts. More than I ever really write about here. I miss him - but I think I miss more the idea of him, or the memories of him with me that make me smile. I'm not ready to love someone else. But with friends - you can shower them with all that love, laughter and adoration that used to belong to your ex. I started booking trips last night - more efforts to connect with my closet friends. I'll be in San Diego in 2 weeks, Long Beach the weekend after that and Los Angeles sometime in June.
Without my boyfriend and my dog I became ungrounded.
I want to love something, I want to laugh with someone, I want to build memories with someone...
...but I think they call that person a friend,
or even better, let's call that person - me.
Monday, April 21, 2003
there was dancing.
there was hot sex.
there were crushes.
and kissing boys.
there was laughing and napping and cuddling.
I got to know old friends even better. I made new friends I already treasure.
I met a sweet blond reader (sorry I was so spacey - uh, go figure)
...and for the first time ever, I drove home from White Party alone - just me, my music, my memories.
wiped. a little emotional. and needing a shower.
wonderful.wonderful.wonderful.fun.
i think i realized this weekend that I really like myself, and maybe started seeing what others see in me.